Thursday, June 30, 2011

Thankful Thursday-Only in America

Only in America
Dreaming in red, white and blue
Only in America
Where we dream as big as we want to
We all get a chance
Everybody gets to dance
Only in America
-Brooks and Dunn

As with every week, I have MUCH to be thankful for! With nothing besides a dentist appointment scheduled this week I have enjoyed lots of rest and relaxation. I even read two books (The Memory Keeper's Daughter and The Wedding Girl) while working on my tan! Here are a few things I am thanking the good Lord for today:

*country music*
(I can't think of a better way to relax at the pool than listening to some good 'ol boys singing about life)

*our military*
(we are free because of the brave men and women who give their lives for ours each and every day)

*family*
(David and I have been blessed immensely on the family front! Who else can say they actually enjoy hanging out with BOTH sides of their familes?!)

*afternoons at the pool*
(such a wonderful way to rest after a long school year)

*weekends away*
(we are so fortunate to be able to spend many weekends away visiting with family and friends. This weekend will take us to an old favorite, Raleighwood!)

What are you thankful for this week?

(Belated) Wordless Wednesday [06.30]

Tuesday, June 28, 2011

Time Spent in the Word

These past few weeks our church has been doing a series on the End Times. It has been an eye-opening experience each Sunday as we dive deeper into the Lord's word and the things he prophesied. One of the things our pastor challenged us to do was spend more time in the Word. I used to be really good at this. I'd set aside time each afternoon/early evening and dive into a different book of the Bible. Oddly enough as I found myself with more time on my hands this summer, I've spent more time away from my personal reading. I am ashamed at the excuses I was making up in my head. There was no reason for it whatsoever. After Sunday's sermon I made a pledge to myself to not allow those excuses to take presidence over my personal study.

I have always found this time to be peaceful. I feel so rested and relaxed after reading and pondering what the Lord has to say. Which is why it's strange to me that I got away from it so easily. If it provides me with such a wonderful sense of grace, then why do I make excuses? Because the devil has made his way into my life. Because the devil wins each time I say no. Once I really thought about all these things and discovered how ashamed I was of my failure, I realized I wasn't going to let it continue.

While it's not much, I have spent some wonderful time in the Word these past two days. I am currently reading Matthew and loving the truth that is spoken by Jesus in every verse. I feel much more at peace with life, and myself, now that I have recommitted to this. Not to mention the teaching that I am receiving from the Lord is saving me time and time again from the temptations around me.

Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him and he will make your paths straight.
-Proverbs 3:5-6

Monday, June 27, 2011

The Lady on the Hill

David and I were fortunate enough to visit the Biltmore in Asheville, NC for our one-year anniversary! Being the uber history dork that I am, I have been dreaming about visiting the Biltmore since I was a kid. With a price of $60 a ticket it never made its way into the Ward family budget. David knew I had been dying to go there for a while (maybe it was the fact that I mentioned it about once a week since we started dating, oh, 4 years ago), and suggested we go for our anniversary. I couldn't love my boy more than the moment he said it was all booked!

Absolutely stunning

We woke up early Friday morning and hit the road for Asheville. After a bit of arguing over which route was correct (Google Maps needs to get on its game) we made it there in about two hours, just in time for the opening! For those of you who have not been yet, this place has organization down to a science. We were some of the first in for the day after a quick bathroom break (make sure you visit the restroom before you enter the house because even though there are over 30 bathrooms, mere peasants cannot use them).

We're thinking this would be the perfect place to be our first home, what do ya think?

We quickly got the $10 audio tour (totally worth it!!) and started traipsing around the biggest house in America. Ol' Georgey knew what he was doing when he started building this place. It was built with the most intricate architectural designs all throughout the house and across the 8,000 acre estate. This 250-room house started off as a "country getaway", but quickly became something much more. It took us about two and a half hours to tour the home before venturing out into the gardens.

I should probably write an entire separate post about the gardens and their beauty. You could spend an entire day just wandering around the many different sections of the gardens-and we almost did. We thought we'd take a quick trip down to Bass Pond and the waterfall there. HA! Almost an hour and buckets of sweat later we finally made our way to the pond and waterfall. The even more frustrating part than the hour-long trek there? You couldn't even seen the flippin' waterfall! We got a pretty good picture of it later from the car. Argh. We definitely earned our all-you-can-eat buffet at the Deerpark.

 We made it to the pond!

 David attempting to hitchhike back. We were SO not prepared for the trek to the pond.

Waterfall picture (taken from car)

Our afternoon continued with a superb lunch at the Deerpark. I highly suggest you take advantage of this if you ever get to visit. I'm not talking about a shabby spread kept warm by bizarre heat lamps. The food and service was out of this world. Not to mention they had some of the best sweet tea I've ever had, and that means a lot coming from this Southern born and bred girl! Then, we meandered (and by meandered I mean we took a shuttle) to Antler Hill Farms for our FREE tour of the winery and tasting. We pretended to be great wine connoisseurs and tried quite a few of their famous wines. All I can say is yum!

Then, we headed to the farm where we discovered a new (or old considering the house was opening in 1895) version of cornhole. We also visited some with the animals, though my dear husband was not quite comfortable with the fact that you entered the gates and they were wandering around at your feet.

 Cornhole?

This was as close as I could get him to an animal, and that is only because it is locked up in a barn and cannot escape. 

After all this excitement we took a break at the hotel before hitting up downtown Asheville. After wandering around downtown for about 5 minutes I was kicking myself for never having visited this stunning place before! The city was so welcoming and full of all sorts of kooky things including the drum circle. In the middle of downtown a bunch of people gather with African drums and just start playing. People from all walks of life come and go as they please, yet all the while creating a masterpiece. Some people brought lots of drums and shared them with random people just to keep it going. It was incredible! I highly suggest seeking this out if you ever make it to Asheville.

Drum circle!

After an hour of this our tummies were grumbling (though it took hours to reach this point since we were so pleasantly stuffed after lunch!) and we sought out food. We found a place called Barley's that had over 55 different types of beer on tap-our kind of place! We split a sourdough bread calzone (yum) and relaxed while watching the College World Series before heading back to the hotel.

 Just one of the two bars

When we returned to the hotel my sweet husband gave me two more charms for my Pandora bracelet!! One that has a dangling pearl (the birthstone of June) and another that reads "Forever Together". He had to explain it to his completely unromantic and very blonde wife (moi) that it meant "forever together in June" since that is when we got married. Seriously, how freaking lucky am I?!?

It was an incredible visit that could not have gone any more perfectly!

Thursday, June 23, 2011

Thankful Thursday-Never Alone

May your tears come from laughing, you find friends worth having
As every year passes, they mean more than gold
May you win and stay humble, smile more than grumble
And know when you stumble, you're never alone
-Lady Antebellum

In honor of our one year anniversary I am dedicating this week's edition of Thankful Thursday to my wonderful husband. I shared our "story" here back in February, so I'm not going to bore y'all with all the details again. I did want to take a minute to share some of the things that make my hubby so incredibly perfect:

*his sense of humor*
(he keeps me in fits of giggles with his silly voices and keen ability to find humor in all situations. He makes life more fun)

*his faithfulness*
(his devotion to our Lord and Savior is truly inspiring and I know that I am blessed to get to walk next to him on this journey)

*the way he treats me*
(his momma raised him right. This boy's respect for women and impeccable manners are impressive! He tells me I look beautiful even when I haven't bathed and am rocking the old school sweats. You know, the ones with stains you can't even recognize. I'd say he's a keeper.)

*his generosity*
(his willingness to give and help others despite the cost it may be to him is inspiring)

*his goals*
(despite what is going on in the world around us he never loses sight of where he sees himself in the future and is not going to let anyone stop him from getting there)

*how well he knows me*
(he knows me better than I know myself and continues to find the strengths I possess before I even recognize they are there)

I could go on for days, honestly, but then I'll have nothing to share at our second anniversary. I'm sure I'll have many more lovey dovey things to share in the coming week, but until then have a happy day!